Talking about Boy-Girl Relationship, people at our age are quite interested to know more about it... including me... But, nowadays, from what I can see, 2 people come together, and become couple, just for the sake of being together, enjoying the companionship, without considering about the commitment and responsibilities of being together with someone... Bro Chris came last Wednesday, and talk something about BGR during our Christian Fellowship...And it really hit me...
What is the purpose and reason of two people getting hooked up? Is it merely just because of the fun and enjoyment of having a companion, someone who text you from time to time, someone who will chat with you throughout the night?? I don't know but sometimes, teenagers like us, often undergoes some sort of chemical or hormonal disorder, that is when we tends to think that we are in LOVE with the special he or she...And we ended up in a broken relationship...
What's the point of going for the hunt, seeking for your own perfect match??? Your 10/10 perfect boy@girlfriend?? Have you ever wonder, when that person suddenly appear in your lives, will you be ready to get involve?? Will he or she also think that you are the perfect match??? What if the answers are "NO"?? Instead of waiting for the perfect one to appear, you might as well get yourself ready, ready for the best, make yourself the 100% perfect guy@girl that every other person dreamt of...
What is LOVE?? Many have misused this word to express their feeling of infatuation, the mere desire to be with that person...But what LOVE really shows, is a kind of selfless sacrifice, a life-long dedication to be with your love one... Can most of us do that?? Are we ready to get involve in this kind of Holy Covenant?? Or is it okay to get involve in several relationships, not the serious kind, but just for the sake of having fun??
If we all really put God in the center of everything, including our relationships, there are many things to consider, many rules to follow, when the Bible is our Authority for us to run our lives... Let's us live our lives according to what the Bible said, be a Godly person, submit to Him, and He will surely complete the Missing piece of your Jigsaw puzzle.....
When you are ready, the right person will appear in the right place, the right time, for the right reason ....A vow is a vow, its a serious promise, a Holy Covenant that shouldn't be broken... Here goes the Wedding vows,
I _____, take you ______, to be my wedded wife/husband. To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish 'till death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness.
For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.
~Matthew 19 : 5~
Labels: CF, Christianity, philosophy
